i don’t think he is, but he might be? he has never appeared to be interested in to males, other than as friends. his body language is totally feminine, and he use alot of pharses as if he is speaking as a woman. he is always singing female songs, and rarely sings anything by men. when he watches music videos he talks about how cute (his words) their hair, outfits, or dance moves are. he is dating a girl in his class. my problem is he will be starting high school next year and i know how mean kids can be. if he is gay that’s fine, but if he is not i fear that boys in school will label him as such and make it hard for him. how should i confort him.
If you confront your son, tell him to always be himself. If that is who he truly is, then dont try to change him. Maybe you should just tell him to be prepared for ignorant high school kids who are under the influence of total conformity. As you said, its fine to be gay, and its also fine to be a boy that happens to be feminine. High school kids may not understand that yet, but neither of you should let their opinions bother you. The opinion of a follower with no mind of their own is worthless and trivial. Tell him to be himself and find some friends who will appreciate him for what matters, not for his ratings on the popularity scale. Best of luck to you both.
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