When these perceptions are formed, we often describe it as Gut Feeling.
To make a good impression on others (and to send the right messages) you need to have a good personality and the art of projecting quality body language.

The Body Language Videos blog is designed to give you the very best information out there. Below are a few general points any person should know to project a Charming Personality.
On this site, pay attention to the following:

Body Language Videos Tip #1: The Art of Greeting: When you go to different places, the way of greeting differs. For example, giving a handshake always doesn’t work in India, where they prefer their way of greeting i.e. Namastey (Hindi).
So we have to adapt accordingly and greet a person properly.
If you prefer giving a handshake then you should always give a firm handshake.

Body Language Videos Tip #2: The Art of Speech: Although body language is non-verbal Communication, its crucial to combine it with good verbal communication.  A person should always be clear and precise about what he is speaking. If you ever end up stammering, just compose yourself and continue.  Project confidence and understand the levels that different people communicate at. Here’s a free report that you’ll want to check out. (Although, it’s designed for men having success with women, you can use this unique concept for interviews, networking and romance. http://superseductionpower.com/loc-book.html)

Special Tip: The Art of Smiling: A good genuine smile is the most signal you can send to the person’s subconscious mind.

Special Tip: Don’t stare or Narrow your eyes: Making direct eye contact for more then 5 seconds gives a uncomfortable feeling to the other person. Even if you are having a conversation, you should make sure that you are not staring at the person. Narrowing your eyes on a person gives them a feeling that you don’t like them.

Special Tip: Do not fidget: Doesn’t matter whether you are confident or not, you should never send the message that you lack confidence. Sometimes people with confidence hold onto to habits that send the wrong message. Fidgeting is one of those signs that most people read as a lack of confidence. Whenever you feel nervous (shaking your legs or tapping your fingers which distracts the other person), take slow deep breaths, smile and enjoy the moment. If you do those 3 things, you’ll notice that it’s almost impossible to fidget. More importantly, you’ll project the type of confidence that relaxes the other person.

Special Tip: While having a conversation lean a little bit, but not much to show that you are interested and nod ocaasionally when the other person is speaking.
These were a few general points about improving and fine tuning a person’s Body language. With the Body Language Videos on this site, you’re going to learn a lot because these are hand-picked videos that teach an important lesson.

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1. Sit upright and lean forward with interest when your interviewer is talking.
Showing interest in what anyone is saying is a show of appreciation that isn’t quickly forgotten by the other party. In the case of interviewers, it suggests to them that you’re receptive and able to take instruction easily.

2. Maintain eye contact.
This is essential. Wandering eyes communicate timidity, or worse, lack of respect and attention. If you appear too timid to handle an interview with ease, or you seem to have no respect for the process from the start, it’s unlikely you’ll be asked back.

3. Smile but don’t force it.
Forced smiles come off creepy. If you’re not typically accustomed to smiling at strangers, practice emitting warmth, and give an occasional brief but warm smile.
4. Sit in a position you’re comfortable in and be at ease.
Avoid folding your arms over your chest, fidgeting, or sitting stiff as a statue. All of these are indicators that you don’t feel at ease, and that’s the opposite message you want to convey. Lock the idea into your mind that you have been invited for an interview. The key here is: You’ve been invited. Show appreciation and go in knowing you are the best candidate for the job and one who is warm at socially adept as well.
Incorporating these body language tips can take a small bit of time to commit to memory if you’re not used to them, but the advantages far outweigh the minor cost of time it takes to master them. Go out there and show them you’re the candidate for the job.
Nervousness and interviewing can unfortunately go hand in hand, but it certainly doesn’t have to show and ruin your chances at landing a dream position at your target company. Everyone, including you, pays heed to unconscious “tells” without realizing it. Ensuring that you’re communicating unspoken confidence helps companies to feel at ease and place trust in you. Employ a few of these body language tips while you’re sitting in the interview seat and optimize your potential for getting the kind of callback you’re looking for.
1. Sit upright and lean forward with interest when your interviewer is talking.
Showing interest in what anyone is saying is a show of appreciation that isn’t quickly forgotten by the other party. In the case of interviewers, it suggests to them that you’re receptive and able to take instruction easily.
2. Maintain eye contact.
This is essential. Wandering eyes communicate timidity, or worse, lack of respect and attention. If you appear too timid to handle an interview with ease, or you seem to have no respect for the process from the start, it’s unlikely you’ll be asked back.
3. Smile but don’t force it.
Forced smiles come off creepy. If you’re not typically accustomed to smiling at strangers, practice emitting warmth, and give an occasional brief but warm smile.
4. Pay attention to your indirect communication. Although, the report is on a slightly differently subject, check out: http://superseductionpower.com/loc-book.html
5. Sit in a position you’re comfortable in and be at ease.
Avoid folding your arms over your chest, fidgeting, or sitting stiff as a statue. All of these are indicators that you don’t feel at ease, and that’s the opposite message you want to convey. Lock the idea into your mind that you have been invited for an interview. The key here is: You’ve been invited. Show appreciation and go in knowing you are the best candidate for the job and one who is warm at socially adept as well.
Incorporating these body language tips can take a small bit of time to commit to memory if you’re not used to them, but the advantages far outweigh the minor cost of time it takes to master them. Go out there and show them you’re the candidate for the job.

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so they arent doing anything. does that mean i was reading my dogs body language wrong? and it wasnt a domanice thing and they were just playing?

Exactly what video might you be talking about?

And if your dog likes humping other dogs, you need to step in and correct him, immediately and so he knows you mean it. He’s not playing, he’s trying to dominate and you’re just asking to have a major fight on your hands.

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http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=5729188n

I watched this…and I saw what I have seen time and time again…An actress. She wanted it all. She had it all…but now, she is in prison, trying to act like the victim…I say that by watching her, not getting emotionally involved. She is guilty in my mind from what I have seen. She`s playing the victim, not playing the innocent objector, and that`s says a lot.

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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AswD0bJK8AMMVJQiLH.LrCjty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100311024813AAgvdRH

I posted this question just last night..Got some pretty good answers, and I learned a few things about myself..Hell, my psychiatrist keeps telling me i’m anti-social, but I’m not. I’m just a quiet person, like..Imagine the protagonist "LINK" in the LOZ games.

But WHY is this a problem? Why are people telling me to practice speaking? I don’t want to! I just want to know how to communicate without actually speaking..I hate speaking to people. And I don’t really like it when people talk..My BEST example is..The game that I felt absolutely relaxed with playing was the legend of zelda, because no one spoke..It was just text, I got to read through it..
But with video games nowadays like GTA IV, AC2, whenever someone talks, I turn the volume down..
I don’t know why. Now WHY is this a problem? At my last school, I was with a group of talkative people that understood me without me having to speak. My teachers even read my face..I love being quiet..God, and It’s NOT a self esteem issue..I just don’t like talking, other then Iming someone or texting them..It’s a hassle. And combine THAT with my heavy european accent, along with people continuously asking me "what?" after everything I say.

I always have to repeat myself just because these stupid kids at my school can’t understand me. That makes it difficult to get into conversation with others. And I express my annoyance by sighing heavily, and shaking my head. I have a weird accent that most people can’t make out..It’s like..I don’t know, either polish or Russian..Don’t ask..My ancestry is literally from all over. It’s hard memorizing what nationality I am. I just go on to say that I’m a mutt. (slang for mixed)

Excuse me for ranting, but..I just don’t understand what’s wrong with not speaking. A lot of people from my past understood me just by my body language, and facial expression..Besides, people are so rude..I live in the city, and..I’m not like them..I’m calm, collective, and soft, while these people are like..Just plain loud and obnoxious. Proof of this is when I actually try saying something in class, and people just ignore me. They interrupt me all the time, even the adults..Even when I talk to someone, that person keeps interrupting me, not letting me finish.

So, you tell me what’s wrong..I’ve already told you what’s wrong. Now I’d like to hear what you people think is wrong. Besides, people best understand me if I just hold my silence..So, do I REALLY have to practice speaking? Cuz I really don’t want to..Really, I don’t..At one of my middle schools, people beat me up a lot, but..The girls liked me, a lot..And that was because I was quiet, and gentle..I never got angry. I used to be groped, even o.o..But it wasn’t until I started talking that..The moment was ruined. Yeah, I am weird, and I do say the wrong stuff, which further justifies my right to hold my silence and still be accepted.

Now it’s your turn to talk. I had to post this twice because I accidentally put in a broken link, and because I said some offensive things…Now, see what I mean? That’s an example..
Also, I don’t have a problem with being a "mute"..It’s the other people that have the problem..
How am I lazy? I just don’t like noise..

No wonder you like the Zelda titles, they were deliberately made that way. The developers thought that the player would enjoy the game more if the protagonist didn’t speak (as the player couldn’t interact with the in game characters). Shigeru Miyamoto wanted the protagonist to be the ‘link’ between the player and the game, and hence Link came to be named.

Unfortunately, verbal communication is something that society runs on. Imagine getting a job or even getting served when you go out – you have to ask in order to get what you want and need.

I would be great if we could be hermits in a cave (my cave would have electricity, internet and hot & cold running water) in order to get away from all the things that we don’t like. Other people and their rudeness/annoying behaviour/loudness are always going to be there. It’s how you react and perceive them that you can control.

Is it your accent what is troubling you? People make fun of the way I mispronounce things so sometimes I’ll get someone to say something and I’ll watch how they hold their mouth when they say it – I figure if I say it like them, then they’ll understand me and won’t be able to poke fun!

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